Sex Toys for Couples - How do I choose?

Choosing a new sex toy for you and your partner to use together can be difficult and overwhelming.  We have put together a helpful guide to assist you in choosing your couple's sex toy.

There are many different types of sex toys for couples.  What type you decide on really depends on your situation and what you would like to achieve in your relationship – more intimacy, more spice, more sexual exploration, etc. 

More Intimacy and Connection

A great way to start out and to add more intimacy to your relationship is to use sensual massage products. The Large Love Mitt: Lavender or Pink is a great way to massage away the stress of the day and get your partner relaxed and in the mood. Just add your favorite sensual erotic massage oil or cream.  Another great tip is to add a vibrating bullet inside the mitt to give a vibrating massage.  This enhances the massage even more and the bullet can be removed to use on other parts of the body alone after you are finished using the massage mitt.  You can also start out your night by creating a nice bubble bath for the two of you.  There are great sensual bath products like bath salts, bubbles, shower gels and more to create that sensual and romantic time together.

Another fun product to try is a massage candle.  These can be dripped on the body and massaged into the skin.  Because they are made from soy, they don’t get hot like wax.

Have fun together while improving your intimacy and sexual communication by playing an adult game for couples. Learn more about each other’s sexual desires and fantasies so you can add those to your love making.

Other foreplay products for couples are in the romance kits section. Try edible chocolate body paints to paint all over your partner’s body and then have fun licking it all off.  Or, use glow in the dark body paints to draw sexual instructions for your partner before he/she comes home and be ready and waiting in the dark to see their pleasant surprise.

Spice Up or Enhance your Sexual Relationship

One way to enhance your sexual relationship with your partner is to add a sex toy. You can start out slow and then add more as you explore the possibilities together. Adding a couple's vibrator during foreplay can help get each other more excited and ready for the ‘main event’. A couple of simple adult toys that work great for foreplay is either a finger vibrator or a vibrating bullet. Either of these types of vibrators can be used on him or her.

To add a little extra pleasure to your love making, try adding a couple’s toy like a stimulating cock ring, a vibrating cock ring or a We-Vibe 3. Cock rings with stimulating textures or bumps or that vibrate are great to wear during sex because they provide extra stimulation to her clitoris and labia along with some stimulation for him as well.

For those who are more adventurous, you could try using remote control vibrating panties while at dinner or somewhere else in public. This will add some excitement for the wearer as well as the one holding the controller.

Another toy for more adventurous couples are Strap-ons. Couples that like to try something new or act out a fetish may choose to try a strap-on kit.  Older couples or those guys that have erection problems, can use a hollow strap on for men or PPA, to pleasure their partner.

Using Bondage Gear is another way for couples to expand their sexual horizons.  Talk to your partner to find out if he or she has any untold fantasies that they would like to act out.  Sexual Role Play lingerie is also available to help act out your fantasies.

Try having sex in a different place - like in the shower.  Sex in the shower toys and accessories are made just for this purpose!

Expand your sexual position possibilities by using a sex swing! Or, use a sex position pillow, sex sling or other type of sex furniture to help aid in the types of sexual positions that you can try.

Finally, whatever couple's sex toy you decide to try, the most important thing to remember is to always be sure to communicate your feelings and desires with your partner.

If you need any help finding a sex toy, please be sure to email us with your questions or concerns and we'll be happy to help.